The one big lesson I have learned from this experience is that I will never EVER judge anyone if I don't know the facts. I know in the past I have been guilty of this, but ya know what, never again. I have had so many negative things said to me and even more about me. I really don't know what I would do without my friends, I don't think I could have made it through these last few weeks. While I am happy with my life, the judgment still hurts. As much as I like to think I have a thick skin and nothing bothers me, it does. It really bothers me.
So, if you are reading this and consider yourself a friend or a friendly acquaintance of mine and you want to know something about my life, ask. Don't automatically assume I am devastated, and don't automatically judge me. You don't know what has happened or what is going on in my life. Oh and if you want to talk shit about me, at least do it to my face (or through private messages) with your name on it.
Oh and I wanted to send a shout-out to my lovely ladies who have defended me and been there for me through all of this. And to Dennis, I don't know what I would do without you I couldn't ask for a better friend! And of course to Benjamin, just for being you!! And for putting up with all of this craziness, you are the best!
♥ Sara
"It is just as cowardly to judge an absent person as it is wicked to strike a defenseless one. Only the ignorant and narrow-minded gossip, for they speak of persons instead of things."
- Lawrence G. Lovasik
"We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path."
- Paulo Coelho
5 comments:
Awwww!! Very nice Sara!! I'm sorry you've had to live through the judgment, and I wish people would realize that they need to gather the facts before they open their mouth. You are a strong person, and even though the judgment hurts, you will get through it stronger than ever!! I'll always be here for ya, even being miles and miles and miles (I don't know how far it is) away. I'm so glad to have found such a good friend. You rock!!!
I completely second what Bri said.. hunnie its ur life and how u choose to live it is ur business only.. its sad that people who were being all friendly and welcoming u not so long ago can turn so quick without ever knowing the full facts dont worry though it just shows how twofaced and nasty they always were...
we still loves ya and always will and dont worry if someone needs a slappin i'll get the first plane over! :) xx
Aww Sara!! It's great! No matter how old you get there will always be the jerkfaces, but you will always be better than them...remember that. All us of have your back no matter the distance (since you know some are across the damn ocean). You are a great person, so don't ever forget that (like Ben would let you but you know).
hehehe damn ocean or not tiff id come beat somes ass to a pulp if needed.. lol id go all biblical and walk on water to save airfare id be that upset someone hurt our Sara!!
Haven't been around much lately, but I'm here for you too! :)
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